It is important to constantly think about your, and your children's, safety when you are planning on leaving an abusive relationship.

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Below are important steps to take when planning for a safe exit from an abuser.

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IF YOU ARE STILL IN THE RELATIONSHIP:

• Think of a safe place to go if an argument occurs – avoid rooms with no exits or rooms with weapons.

• Practice how to get out safely of your home safely.

• Keep purse/wallet and car keys readily available.

• Memorize all important numbers.

• Teach children to call 911 or other emergency numbers in your area.

• Think about a safe place to go or safe person to contact.  

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IF YOU ARE PREPARING TO LEAVE:

• Rehearse an escape plan. Practice it with your children.

• Open a savings account if possible.

• Click here for a list of items you may want to consider if you are planning on leaving.

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IF YOU HAVE LEFT THE RELATIONSHIP:

• Change your phone number.

• Save and document all contacts, messages, injuries, or incidents.

• Change locks if batterer has key.

• Avoid staying alone.

• Plan how to get away if confronted by batterer.

• Vary your routine.

• Keep your protection order on or near you.

• Give the protection order to police departments in communities where you live and work.

• If you have to meet your partner, do it in a public place.

• Inform your employer, spiritual leader, close friends and relatives that you have a protection and show them a picture of the abuser.

• Ask for help screening calls at work. 

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Leaving an abusive relationship can be dangerous.

Know your options. Safety planning help begins with a phone call to Branches' 24-Hour Crisis Hotline:

304-529-2382. Call now. You have the right to be safe 24/7!